Sunday, December 6, 2009

The Gathering…

IT ALWAYS HAPPENS, DOESN’T IT? WHEN SOMEBODY PASSED AWAY WOULD BE THE TIME FOR GATHERING, WHERE EVERYONE WOULD COME TOGETHER, ONCE AGAIN, NO MATTER HOW LONG IT HAS TOOK US TO BUILD UP THIS RELATIONSHIP, AND ONLY WHEN SOMEBODY PASSED AWAY WE WILL START MOANING AND START TO BUILD THAT RELATIONSHIP AGAIN WHEN WE ARE SPLITTED APART FOR THAT LONG. IS THIS THE WAY TO DO IT? OR IS IT JUST A HUMAN’S NATURE?

It is the 6th of December, 2009, and also another day to be remembered as this day brought us back together, regardless on where we are, on what we are doing, and on why did we stop doing things that we should be doing. The same thing goes on repeatedly in a human’s life, where every funeral of a family, a friend or a relatives are the time where everyone will be gathering and this is the only time we will appreciate everyone around us. After the funeral is gone, the appreciation would still be here, but not for long, only for a period of time, and it goes off again and the whole cycle starts again.

Han Yin, a person who had been in the same class since we were 7, and the person whom I had been with in the same high school until we graduated high school when we were 17 (2006), and until I met him last month, he was still healthy. But just in a sudden, I received messages that he had just passed away, but the details are still not with me in order for me to certify the reason that causes his death, but that instance, all the memories flashed by, starting from standard one to standard two, from standard two to standard three, from standard three to standard ……

It was a sadistic scenario for me, as I had knew him for 13 years (including this year) and he is a very nice person, a very nice guy, but why things had to be so cruel? He is only 20 years old and what wronged did he do that has an equivalent worth with his life? I still couldn’t understand. And this was the time where all primary school classmates of mine started finding me and we talked about it, and this was also the time where we would stop everything we are doing now, sit down together and bond on again on what we had ditched since the day we left primary school.

But things which had happened cannot be changed, and this is the fact of life, therefore, life has to go on as usual. All I can do here is to hope that you rest in peace, alright bro?



~ R.I.P. Han Yin and you will always be in our memory

…. And all my condolences for his family… ~

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