ENVY IS ALWAYS THE BETTER WORD FOR JEALOUSY, BUT WHY DO PEOPLE GET JEALOUS? IS IT BECAUSE WHEN SOMEBODY STOLE THEIR PROPERTIES OR SOMETHING THEY HAD OR IS IT WHEN SOMEBODY HAD SOMETHING THAT YOU HAD ALWAYS WANTED BUT YOU DO NOT? THINGS MIGHT BE AS EASY AS YOU THINK, BUT INSIDE THE WORD JEALOUSY, IT CONTAINS LOTS OF MEANING BEHIND A PERSON’S MIND, A PERSON’S THOUGHT, WHICH MAKES THAT HUMAN HUMANE.
I received a call today, a call from my friend that, that I will known him as X here in this post, he told me about his jealousy towards his friends, not to say like being a crush or a couple, but just a very normal friend.
X had always been going with his friends, all the time, since het met his buddies a few months back, but due to some unavoidable problems, they were meant to split up, (they were all guys la, but they all split up), and then here comes the present story. After he was split up with his buddies, he has got another new bunch of friends, consists of girls, and they had also been going out with him, playing with him, working with him, and everything you could think off which had built a very close bond between both of them, until a very close friend of him joined into this gang.
It was also one of his buddies who had joined this group of friends, but things had change, X slowly got ignored by his friends, got ditched by his friends and X had also been left out by his friends where so many things that they did before, had gone in just a moment. Maybe things should be the way it should be, or maybe things should be the way it had been before his friend came into his group of friends, and this is where the envy begins.
Because things had gotten out of hand, which was not expected, X started to got envy of his best friend on what had happened, and the only thing that could be done right now is to leave it alone, without touch, because firstly, it is his best friend, what can he do, and secondly, that bunch of people are X’s gang, and all he can do now is just to sit and watch, and at the same time, to join in, but really without the heart of joining in anymore.
X wanted to leave but he couldn’t because currently, these were the only people that were that close with him and if he joined in into another group of people in a sudden, what would both of the groups think about this men? A person who is not serious is friendship? Or is he just playing with people’s thought and mind? and the only thing that I would say about this would be, to look forward on what is happening to you right now, because this jealousy doesn’t happen to everyone, so enjoy it? And definitely, you will learn something more precious than anyone outside do, because it might lead you to a level where you would be able to appreciate things more before it was taken away from you….
I received a call today, a call from my friend that, that I will known him as X here in this post, he told me about his jealousy towards his friends, not to say like being a crush or a couple, but just a very normal friend.
X had always been going with his friends, all the time, since het met his buddies a few months back, but due to some unavoidable problems, they were meant to split up, (they were all guys la, but they all split up), and then here comes the present story. After he was split up with his buddies, he has got another new bunch of friends, consists of girls, and they had also been going out with him, playing with him, working with him, and everything you could think off which had built a very close bond between both of them, until a very close friend of him joined into this gang.
It was also one of his buddies who had joined this group of friends, but things had change, X slowly got ignored by his friends, got ditched by his friends and X had also been left out by his friends where so many things that they did before, had gone in just a moment. Maybe things should be the way it should be, or maybe things should be the way it had been before his friend came into his group of friends, and this is where the envy begins.
Because things had gotten out of hand, which was not expected, X started to got envy of his best friend on what had happened, and the only thing that could be done right now is to leave it alone, without touch, because firstly, it is his best friend, what can he do, and secondly, that bunch of people are X’s gang, and all he can do now is just to sit and watch, and at the same time, to join in, but really without the heart of joining in anymore.
X wanted to leave but he couldn’t because currently, these were the only people that were that close with him and if he joined in into another group of people in a sudden, what would both of the groups think about this men? A person who is not serious is friendship? Or is he just playing with people’s thought and mind? and the only thing that I would say about this would be, to look forward on what is happening to you right now, because this jealousy doesn’t happen to everyone, so enjoy it? And definitely, you will learn something more precious than anyone outside do, because it might lead you to a level where you would be able to appreciate things more before it was taken away from you….
This is how jealousy will end up... don't stop jealousing... but appreciate it inside your heart, alright??
P.S. you owe me a dinner… because you didn’t give me a good night sleep…. Ish… you know who you are….
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