HAVE YOU ALWAYS WONDER, WHY COULD SOMEONE ALWAYS BE THE CENTER OF THE ATTRACTION? IS IT BECAUSE OF THE GOOD LOOKS OR SOMETHING PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE? OR IS IT BECAUSE OF THE NATURE OF BEING IN THE CENTER OF ATTRACTION? AND HAVE YOU ALWAYS THOUGHT TO BE IN THE ATTRACTION OF EVERYONE WHEN EVERYONE HAS BEN NEGLECTING YOU? I BET YOU HAD.
It had always been a problem when someone feels lonely in their life, although they are always out with their friends, but most of the time neglected by their friends, when they feel that they are just the follower and the rest are the leaders, deciding on where to go next, where to have lunch, or when to have dinner, and imagine this, being left out from the group even though you are in that group really makes a person feels bad. It is just something like an apple within a whole bundle of oranges where the oranges will accept the apple a one of them, but it just still doesn’t feels right.
But, there is some natural attraction which happens to be built into someone where I came across this when I was on the way back to my hostel. I was on the train where there was this kid, jumping all around actively in the train, rather than to get attention, which I would say that the kid wouldn’t even know on how to get attraction, he was actually having fun by his own. But there was one weird thing about it which was everyone on the train was looking at him, having fun, and with all the smiles on the faces of everyone, this has proven that the kid has actually brought joy for everyone, which includes me. This kid is just like the sunshine which brought light to everyone who was in the depth of darkness, bringing joy and cheer for everyone who is around him. But, the mom did something which was not should be done, his mom took that sunlight back, by holding that little boy’s hand and ask him to sit quietly, and all the smiles on everyone’s faces went dull again. Is it appropriate to hold them back from having their own fun? Or is it just that the parent feels that it is embarrassing to have such a naughty child?
We have always hold on our backs while we were asked to be in the middle of attraction, like presentations, speech giving, and just by standing up on the stage will actually get attention from people, but we are always afraid to do so. And when we are being left out, we blame others for not letting us join in. So, is it our fault or is it the other’s fault for doing so? Fright might be a possible answer if you say so, and therefore, take that challenge and go on ahead, bring a step forward on who you are and what you can be. Who knows that your potential might be there, or rather, it might bring you some attractiveness within your friends which brings you to the center of attractiveness. Therefore, go for it, fight for it, but not to just sit down and blame.
It had always been a problem when someone feels lonely in their life, although they are always out with their friends, but most of the time neglected by their friends, when they feel that they are just the follower and the rest are the leaders, deciding on where to go next, where to have lunch, or when to have dinner, and imagine this, being left out from the group even though you are in that group really makes a person feels bad. It is just something like an apple within a whole bundle of oranges where the oranges will accept the apple a one of them, but it just still doesn’t feels right.
But, there is some natural attraction which happens to be built into someone where I came across this when I was on the way back to my hostel. I was on the train where there was this kid, jumping all around actively in the train, rather than to get attention, which I would say that the kid wouldn’t even know on how to get attraction, he was actually having fun by his own. But there was one weird thing about it which was everyone on the train was looking at him, having fun, and with all the smiles on the faces of everyone, this has proven that the kid has actually brought joy for everyone, which includes me. This kid is just like the sunshine which brought light to everyone who was in the depth of darkness, bringing joy and cheer for everyone who is around him. But, the mom did something which was not should be done, his mom took that sunlight back, by holding that little boy’s hand and ask him to sit quietly, and all the smiles on everyone’s faces went dull again. Is it appropriate to hold them back from having their own fun? Or is it just that the parent feels that it is embarrassing to have such a naughty child?
We have always hold on our backs while we were asked to be in the middle of attraction, like presentations, speech giving, and just by standing up on the stage will actually get attention from people, but we are always afraid to do so. And when we are being left out, we blame others for not letting us join in. So, is it our fault or is it the other’s fault for doing so? Fright might be a possible answer if you say so, and therefore, take that challenge and go on ahead, bring a step forward on who you are and what you can be. Who knows that your potential might be there, or rather, it might bring you some attractiveness within your friends which brings you to the center of attractiveness. Therefore, go for it, fight for it, but not to just sit down and blame.
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